The Journal
How to Support a Loved One With OCD Without Accidentally Reinforcing It
Supporting someone with OCD can be challenging. Learn how reassurance, accommodation, and participation in compulsions can affect OCD, and how to provide support without reinforcing the disorder.
What Is OCD?
OCD is much more than cleaning and checking. Learn how obsessions and compulsions work, why OCD feels so convincing, and how evidence-based treatment helps people break the cycle.
Why Is Uncertainty So Hard to Tolerate?
Do you feel like you need to know for sure before you can move on? Learn what intolerance of uncertainty is, why it plays such an important role in anxiety and OCD, and how treatment helps people stop chasing impossible certainty.
When AI Becomes Part of the OCD Cycle
AI can be a valuable source of information, but for people with OCD it can also become part of the obsession. Whether it takes the form of reassurance-seeking, compulsive research, rumination, or endless self-analysis, AI can unintentionally reinforce the very cycle people are trying to escape.
What’s Existential OCD?
Existential OCD is a subtype of obsessive-compulsive disorder involving repetitive, distressing questions about existence, reality, consciousness, identity, or the meaning of life. The problem is typically not philosophical curiosity itself, but the compulsive need to reach certainty, resolution, or complete understanding.
People with existential OCD may become stuck in repetitive mental loops involving questions such as:
What if nothing is real?
What if life has no meaning?
How do I know other people truly exist?
What if I can never feel certain about reality?
What if consciousness itself is dangerous or unstable?
These thoughts are often experienced as intrusive, distressing, difficult to disengage from, and highly repetitive.
Understanding Real Event OCD
Most people can look back on mistakes, awkward moments, poor decisions, or times they hurt someone and eventually place those experiences into a broader context of being human.
In real event OCD, however, the mind becomes trapped in obsessive guilt, doubt, reviewing, and self-punishment surrounding something that actually happened.
Health OCD: When the Fear of Illness Becomes Obsessive
Health anxiety involves persistent worry about illness, symptoms, or medical conditions. Although reassurance and checking may provide temporary relief, they often keep anxiety going by reinforcing the search for certainty.
What Is POCD? Understanding Pedophilia-Themed OCD
POCD is a form of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder related to the possibility of being sexually attracted to children, becoming a danger to children, or having hidden desires that the person finds horrifying.
The core problem in OCD isn’t the presence of the thoughts themselves, but the compulsive attempts to achieve certainty, eliminate fear, or prove something with absolute confidence.
People with POCD often become trapped in cycles of fear, hypervigilance, mental checking, reassurance-seeking, avoidance, self-monitoring, and compulsive analysis. The experience is often emotionally consuming and profoundly isolating.
Do Only People With OCD Have Intrusive Thoughts?
Everyone experiences intrusive thoughts from time to time. The difference between normal intrusive thoughts and OCD often isn’t the thought itself, but the meaning attached to it and the compulsive attempts to eliminate uncertainty, distress, or risk.
What Is Contamination OCD?
Contamination OCD involves intrusive fears about contamination and compulsive attempts to eliminate uncertainty about safety. Although many people associate Contamination OCD with germs and cleanliness, the core issue is often persistent doubt about contamination, illness, exposure, or harm.
Understanding Harm OCD
Many people with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) experience intrusive thoughts about harming themselves or other people.
These thoughts are often deeply unwanted, frightening, and emotionally devastating. People may become terrified that the thoughts mean something dangerous about who they are or what they might do.
This presentation is commonly referred to as harm OCD.
What Is Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) Therapy?
Living with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) is no walk in the park. As a clinical psychologist based in Arlington, Virginia, I specialize in Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) Therapy, an evidence-based treatment for OCD that helps people reclaim their lives from endless cycles of obsessions and...
3 Common Misconceptions About OCD
Many people associate OCD primarily with cleanliness, organization, or being very detail-oriented. While those symptoms can occur, OCD is often much more complex and distressing than the stereotypes people commonly see portrayed online or in popular culture.
Misunderstandings about OCD can sometimes delay treatment, increase shame, or make it harder for people to recognize what they are experiencing.