The Journal
Why Do I Overthink Everything?
Do you feel like you overthink everything? Learn why overthinking happens, how it differs from productive problem-solving, and how anxiety, rumination, and OCD can keep repetitive thinking going.
Why Can’t I Stop Thinking About It? Understanding Rumination
Do you replay conversations, second-guess decisions, or analyze the same thoughts for hours without finding an answer? Learn what rumination is, why it’s so hard to stop, and how it differs from productive problem-solving.
What Is Emetophobia?
No one likes to vomit.
For individuals with emetophobia, the fear goes far beyond ordinary dislike or discomfort. The fear can become intense, consuming, and life-altering, affecting daily decisions, eating habits, relationships, travel, parenting, school, work, and physical health.
Emetophobia is a specific phobia involving an intense fear of vomiting. For many people, the fear also extends to seeing others vomit, feeling nauseated, or being exposed to situations associated with illness or vomiting.
How Reassurance Makes Anxiety Worse
For many people, repeated reassurance can unintentionally teach the brain:
uncertainty is dangerous
anxiety must be resolved immediately
reassurance is necessary to feel safe
confidence should come from other people rather than from one’s own ability to tolerate uncertainty
How Therapy Can Change the Way You Respond to Anxiety
For many individuals, anxiety gradually begins shaping daily decisions, behaviors, relationships, and routines. People may start organizing life around trying to prevent distress, avoid uncertainty, or feel completely “safe” before taking action.
Although these strategies often provide temporary relief, they can unintentionally keep anxiety going long-term.
What Anxiety Therapy Actually Focuses On
Many people think anxiety therapy is primarily about learning how to “calm down” or eliminate anxious thoughts completely. In reality, anxiety treatment often focuses less on getting rid of anxiety altogether and more on changing the patterns that keep anxiety going over time. Anxiety is not simply a feeling. It also affects behavior, attention, decision-making, habits, and the way people respond to uncertainty and discomfort. Over time, anxiety can gradually begin organizing a person’s life around avoiding distress.