The Journal
Why I Walk in the AFSP Out of the Darkness Overnight Walk
People often ask me why I participate in the AFSP Out of the Darkness Overnight Walk.
Part of the answer is personal. Like many people who participate in the Overnight, I’ve lost someone I love to suicide. But the reason I keep coming back goes beyond my own experience.
Being suicidal is isolating. Losing someone to suicide is isolating. One of the things I find most powerful about the Overnight is that it pushes back against that isolation.
What to Do If You Think Someone May Be Struggling With Suicidal Thoughts
It can be scary to worry that someone you care about may be thinking about suicide.
Many people hesitate to say anything because they are afraid of:
making things worse
saying the wrong thing
offending the person
“putting the idea in their head”
overreacting
not knowing what to do next
These fears are very common.
But avoiding the conversation entirely can leave someone feeling even more isolated.
If you are concerned about someone, you don’t need to handle the situation perfectly to make a real difference. Often, the most important step is being willing to notice, ask, and stay connected.